Humans are attracted to the tragedies of others.
Car accident? Cancer? Adultery? Violence? Death?
Ooh, I wanna go look! Let me see!
I'm only doing it because I'm concerned about you!
I'm just trying to help.
You should be grateful.
Well guys, guess what, you aren't just trying to help. You are titillated by my tragedy, but I'm not here to titillate you, so get out.