Another point to the story

I wrote in my previous post about my friend asking women to dance.  My post used the anecdote as part of making certain points.  But my friend telling the story, he had a different point to make.  He said if you sit there thinking about asking them to dance, that makes it worse than if you just ask them.  That's a good point too.  I wrote in my previous post about things that sap your soul vs. things that fuel your soul.  Sitting there thinking about how much you don't want to do something, but feeling you should do it saps your soul.  Just do it.  Or decide you aren't going to do it, and go do something that fuels your soul.