Promises to make to each other

I am thinking that the promises people should make to each other are:

1. I promise to try to always treat you with kindness and respect.
2. I trust that you always try to treat me with kindness and respect, but if you lapse sometimes, I will forgive you.
3. If you cease to be committed to treating me with kindness and respect, I reserve the right to choose to reduce contact with you.